{"id":40879,"date":"2015-04-16T19:07:57","date_gmt":"2015-04-16T19:07:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mixedracestudies.org\/wordpress\/?p=40879"},"modified":"2015-04-16T19:07:57","modified_gmt":"2015-04-16T19:07:57","slug":"white-parents-becoming-a-little-less-white","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/?p=40879","title":{"rendered":"White Parents, Becoming a Little Less White"},"content":{"rendered":"

White Parents, Becoming a Little Less White<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/p>\n

Motherlode: Living the Family Dynamic<\/a>
\nThe New York Times<\/a>
\n2015-04-15<\/p>\n

Jack Cheng<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

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\nAmy Crosson<\/small><\/p>\n

Former Gov. Jeb Bush<\/a> made news recently because he checked \u201cHispanic\u201d on a voter registration form<\/a>. This is obviously ridiculous from a scion of the Bush family (and Mr. Bush has said he made a mistake). Yet, I understand, because the family he raised is not unlike mine.<\/p>\n

A few years ago, in fact, my wife casually mentioned that she doesn\u2019t consider herself 100 percent white any more. She has blond hair, blue eyes and fair skin, and as far back as anyone can remember, all of her ancestors have been Irish.<\/p>\n

She was white when we were married. I know that because I\u2019m Chinese and that made us an interracial couple. My wife jokes (I think she\u2019s joking) that she married me in part because my increased melanin would protect her children from skin cancer.<\/p>\n

She became less white when our son, and then our daughter, were born. I think the first bit of doubt surfaced the day we were on the subway with our newborn and a woman came up to my wife and said: \u201cOh, he\u2019s so cute! When did you adopt him?\u201d I was livid: Did it not occur to this woman that the father was sitting right next to his wife and child? It turned out that the woman really just wanted to talk about her own adopted granddaughter but somewhere in that moment my wife was identified as the mother of a nonwhite child…<\/p>\n

…While it will take 18 years for that mixed race baby to vote, there is a parent in that family who suddenly has an altered perspective on the culture and policies of the United States. White mothers who realize that their sons will be victims of racial profiling, white fathers who suddenly feel a little squeamish about the fact that \u201cAsian\u201d is a category of pornography. There are white parents whose children look vaguely Middle Eastern and will face harder times getting onto airplanes…<\/p>\n

Read the entire article here<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

White Parents, Becoming a Little Less White Motherlode: Living the Family Dynamic The New York Times 2015-04-15 Jack Cheng Amy Crosson Former Gov. Jeb Bush made news recently because he checked \u201cHispanic\u201d on a voter registration form. This is obviously ridiculous from a scion of the Bush family (and Mr. Bush has said he made […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1649,12,16,33,414,8,20],"tags":[19902,19903,2640,2327],"class_list":["post-40879","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-anthropology","category-articles","category-asia","category-census","category-family","category-media-archive","category-usa","tag-jack-cheng","tag-motherlode-living-the-family-dynamic","tag-new-york-times","tag-the-new-york-times"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40879","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=40879"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40879\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=40879"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=40879"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=40879"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}