{"id":40941,"date":"2015-04-22T19:40:20","date_gmt":"2015-04-22T19:40:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mixedracestudies.org\/wordpress\/?p=40941"},"modified":"2016-06-10T17:19:39","modified_gmt":"2016-06-10T17:19:39","slug":"having-mixed-race-kids-doesnt-make-you-non-white","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/?p=40941","title":{"rendered":"Having Mixed-Race Kids Doesn&#8217;t Make You Non-White"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/mom.me\/blog\/19002-having-mixed-race-kids-doesnt-make-you-non-white\/\" target=\"_blank\"><em><strong>Having Mixed-Race Kids Doesn&#8217;t Make You Non-White<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/mom.me\" target=\"_blank\">Mom.Me<\/a><br \/>\n2015-04-20<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/hapamama.com\/about\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Grace Hwang Lynch<\/strong><\/a>, Blogger<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/hapamama.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Hapa Mama<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/mom.me\/blog\/19002-having-mixed-race-kids-doesnt-make-you-non-white\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/files.mom.me\/photos\/2015\/04\/20\/135-99389-lfamily-39-600-1429550020.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"550\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.adelvardell.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><small>Adel Vardell photography<\/small><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Do white parents become &#8220;less white&#8221; when they have non-white kids? That question is burning up my Facebook feed right now, thanks to an <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mixedracestudies.org\/?p=40879\" target=\"_blank\">essay in the <em>New York Times<\/em><\/a> last week.<\/p>\n<p>In the piece published in Motherlode, Jack Cheng (a Chinese American man married to a white woman) writes of his wife:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;She became less white when our son, and then our daughter, were born. I think the first bit of doubt surfaced the day we were on the subway with our newborn and a woman came up to my wife and said: &#8216;Oh, he&#8217;s so cute! When did you adopt him?&#8217; I was livid: Did it not occur to this woman that the father was sitting right next to his wife and child?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>But that is not becoming less white&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;While I might be able to code switch and move in different circles and enjoy a variety of cultures, that doesn&#8217;t change the fact that my skin is golden, my nose is wide and sometimes people assume I&#8217;m a <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Tiger_Mother\" target=\"_blank\">Tiger Mother<\/a>. Or the manicurist. Or that I should be taking their <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/General_Tso%27s_chicken\" target=\"_blank\">General&#8217;s Chicken<\/a> order&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Read the entire article <a href=\"http:\/\/mom.me\/blog\/19002-having-mixed-race-kids-doesnt-make-you-non-white\/\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Having Mixed-Race Kids Doesn&#8217;t Make You Non-White Mom.Me 2015-04-20 Grace Hwang Lynch, Blogger Hapa Mama Adel Vardell photography Do white parents become &#8220;less white&#8221; when they have non-white kids? That question is burning up my Facebook feed right now, thanks to an essay in the New York Times last week. In the piece published in [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1649,12,16,414,8,20],"tags":[18923,19956],"class_list":["post-40941","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-anthropology","category-articles","category-asia","category-family","category-media-archive","category-usa","tag-grace-hwang-lynch","tag-mom-me"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40941","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=40941"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40941\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":47500,"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40941\/revisions\/47500"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=40941"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=40941"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=40941"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}