{"id":6746,"date":"2010-04-21T20:54:40","date_gmt":"2010-04-21T20:54:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mixedracestudies.org\/wordpress\/?p=6746"},"modified":"2010-04-21T20:59:58","modified_gmt":"2010-04-21T20:59:58","slug":"a-cross-cultural-marriage-is-an-adventure-id-recommend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/?p=6746","title":{"rendered":"A cross-cultural marriage is an adventure I’d recommend"},"content":{"rendered":"

A cross-cultural marriage is an adventure I’d recommend<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

The Observer<\/a>
\n2009-12-27<\/p>\n

Anushka Asthana<\/a><\/strong>, Education Correspondent<\/p>\n

Mixed-race unions in this country are on the increase, a magical journey that benefits all the families involved<\/em><\/p>\n

One visit to India<\/a> and a childhood playing cricket was never going to be quite enough to prepare Toby, a white Englishman who grew up in Oxfordshire<\/a>, for his marriage. After all, you don’t just marry an Indian woman\u2014you marry her large (and often eccentric) family and all that brings with it.<\/p>\n

The realisation began to sink in for Toby at the Hindu<\/a> part of our wedding, three months ago. He got out of arriving on the back of a white horse, but we persuaded him to go along with the rest of it. That included being dressed up from head to toe, with a red turban with white tassels hanging over his face, embroidered scarf, full-length white coat with gold trimmings and his very own pair of what he called “Aladdin” shoes. He took part in the “baraat<\/a>“, an Indian tradition in which the groom arrives with family and friends dancing around him.<\/p>\n

So there they were: swinging their arms to the bhangra<\/a> beat of a dhol<\/a> drum with shell-shocked smiles as they were met by the cheering crowd of “aunties” and “uncles” (not real ones\u2014that is how we address any Indian person above the age of 40) and bending down to have garlands draped around their necks and red marks smeared on their foreheads.<\/p>\n

The image of a white British groom at the centre of a mass of ecstatic Indian aunties would once have been a rarity. But research released earlier this year found that one in 10 people in Britain with Indian heritage who is in a relationship has a partner of a different race. The study, by the Institute for Social and Economic Research<\/a>, found the same was true of half of all Caribbean men, one in five black African men and two out of five Chinese women. The result so far: one in 10 children in Britain is living in a mixed-race family…<\/strong><\/p>\n

Read the entire article here<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

A cross-cultural marriage is an adventure I’d recommend The Observer 2009-12-27 Anushka Asthana, Education Correspondent Mixed-race unions in this country are on the increase, a magical journey that benefits all the families involved One visit to India and a childhood playing cricket was never going to be quite enough to prepare Toby, a white Englishman […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,414,6,394,10],"tags":[2834,1351,259,2835],"class_list":["post-6746","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-articles","category-family","category-new-media","category-socialscience","category-uk","tag-anushka-asthana","tag-india","tag-marriage","tag-the-observer"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6746","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6746"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6746\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6746"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6746"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mixedracestudies.org\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6746"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}