Having Mixed-Race Kids Doesn’t Make You Non-WhitePosted in Anthropology, Articles, Asian Diaspora, Family/Parenting, Media Archive, United States on 2015-04-22 19:40Z by Steven |
Having Mixed-Race Kids Doesn’t Make You Non-White
Mom.Me
2015-04-20
Grace Hwang Lynch, Blogger
Hapa Mama
Do white parents become “less white” when they have non-white kids? That question is burning up my Facebook feed right now, thanks to an essay in the New York Times last week.
In the piece published in Motherlode, Jack Cheng (a Chinese American man married to a white woman) writes of his wife:
“She became less white when our son, and then our daughter, were born. I think the first bit of doubt surfaced the day we were on the subway with our newborn and a woman came up to my wife and said: ‘Oh, he’s so cute! When did you adopt him?’ I was livid: Did it not occur to this woman that the father was sitting right next to his wife and child?”
But that is not becoming less white…
…While I might be able to code switch and move in different circles and enjoy a variety of cultures, that doesn’t change the fact that my skin is golden, my nose is wide and sometimes people assume I’m a Tiger Mother. Or the manicurist. Or that I should be taking their General’s Chicken order…
Read the entire article here.